In the first few weeks of a new year, it’s easy to get swept up in goal-setting fever.

We buy the planners.
We write the lists.
We declare big intentions with bold energy.

And while all of that is powerful… it can also be fleeting.

If you’ve ever set a resolution on January 1st and forgotten about it by February, you’re not alone. In fact, studies show that over 80% of New Year’s goals fail before spring.

Why?

Because while goals give us direction, they don’t give us momentum.
And momentum is what carries us through the inevitable ups and downs of life.

That’s why I believe in this core principle:

Don’t just set goals. Set rhythms.

Rhythm is about creating a sustainable cadence for how you want to live, lead, and show up each day.

Instead of focusing solely on the outcome (“I want to lose 20 pounds”), we anchor into the practice (“I move my body daily and fuel it with intention”).

Instead of obsessing over metrics (“I need to earn six figures”), we ...

 As the new year begins, many of us are fueled with excitement, determination, and a long list of goals. We create vision boards, set intentions, write out resolutions — and then something unexpected happens.

We freeze.

Not because we don’t care.
Not because we’re lazy.
But because we feel like we need the perfect plan before we can begin.

I’ve been there myself — feeling paralyzed by the weight of doing it all “right.” Waiting for clarity. Waiting for the conditions to be perfect. Waiting for confidence to arrive before taking the leap.

But here's what I’ve learned — and what I share with my coaching clients and speaking audiences alike:

Clarity doesn’t come before the action. It comes because of it.

The first step — no matter how small — is what ignites the flame.

That first phone call.
That first workout.
That first 10 minutes of writing.
That first “yes” to yourself.

It’s not about having the entire map laid out. It’s about trusting that if you keep mov...

As the year winds down, many of us feel the pressure to speed up — to finish everything, plan for the next, and somehow “catch up” before January 1. But what if the most powerful thing you could do right now… was simply complete?

The Weight of the Unfinished

 You may have heard the quote:

“What you don’t finish weighs you down.”

It’s true. Open loops — unfinished conversations, incomplete tasks, and unexpressed feelings — don’t just sit silently. They live rent-free in our minds and hearts. They drain energy, attention, and joy.

And here’s the kicker: it’s often not the big projects that trip us up.
It’s the little incompletions:

• The email we never replied to
• The cluttered drawer we keep ignoring
• The thank-you we never expressed
• The emotional weight we haven’t acknowledged

These open loops create friction. They cloud our focus and slow our stride.

Completion Is Not Perfection

Let’s be clear — completion doesn’t mean perfection. It’s not about making ev...