Focus Beyond the Board 

“Don’t aim at the board. Aim through it.”

This is one of the first things I teach in my Board Breaking Experience workshops — whether I’m working with executives in a boardroom, educators in a retreat setting, or students standing nervously at their first martial arts demo.

It may sound like a simple instruction. But it’s one of the most powerful metaphors I’ve ever used to help people break through fear, limiting beliefs, and the invisible walls holding them back.

Because in both martial arts and life, when we focus on the obstacle — the board — we often stop short.
We hesitate.
We second-guess ourselves.
We lose momentum.
And we hold back.

But when we shift our focus to what’s on the other side, we unlock a completely different energy.
The body aligns. The mind commits. The result changes.

This principle doesn’t just help people break boards.
It helps them break patterns.

The Obstacle vs. the Outcome

Let’s face it — we all face “board...

The "Board" Isn’t the Barrier — We Are 

“The obstacle isn’t out there. It’s in here.”

For over five decades, I’ve guided thousands of individuals through personal and professional transformation — from martial arts students on the mat to business leaders in the boardroom.

No matter the setting, I’ve found that the greatest breakthroughs happen not when we overcome external challenges… but when we overcome the internal ones.

🧠 Fear.

😓 Hesitation.

🗣 That little voice that whispers, "I'm not ready," or worse... "What if I fail?"

And nowhere is this more obvious — or more transformative — than in my Board Breaking Experience workshops. Whether I’m leading a corporate team, keynote audience, or school assembly, there’s always that one moment before someone steps up to break their board. They pause.

Their body may be ready, but their belief isn’t.

It’s rarely about physical strength.
It’s never about technique.
It’s always about mindset.

The Real Barrier Is Internal

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